Little bit of everything...

Thinking of others posts and notes (FB) and wondering if I fall into categories people wish to avoid.
I space out so easily. I hope no one thinks I'm ignoring them. Though I think perhaps what I do may be worse. I don't care one way or the other. Or more like, I hope everyone of my friends and acquaintances are having as good a life as possibly in their reach, but no, I don't need to be updated or included. I suppose that's what make FB so agreeable with this reclusive person (me). I can go to your page and look to see if you're married, engaged, enjoying watching your little ones grow, or dealing with college and there after. We don't have to interact. I'm very aware of my socially retarded self. It's not meant to hurt, no maliciousness intended. That's not to say that I don't say stupid, insensitive things, but they're never intended to damage. I just don't have an tact and thus would rather not talk, than inflict needless hurts.
But I think I just fell off topic...
I remember a myspace bulletin going around, few months back, saying something along the lines of "if I don't see this come back" or "if you don't post this anew" then we're not friends and I'm going to delete our "myspace link". I think this is silly. I'm not much of a myspace fan, but I have buddies on both popular networking sites, and once friended I don't interact much with. It's not that I don't want to work on the relationship or that I don't care. We've graduated HS or college, or have gotten new jobs and grown up and apart. Our lives are different. I want to keep in touch a little bit, but not like previous interaction. And not cause this or that person is not worth it but because our lives aren't so parallel as they once were. So..have a good life, enjoy your fortune of life, love, or money, whatever you're striding for. Leave the silly stuff behind, stress yourself less.
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Been thinking about life. More so now, because of new family connections brought on my wonderful husband. I've blood kin, very much in my life, but this new connection is so right. I didn't know I was missing it until it fell into place.
How wonderful to be included. I grew up in a loving family, unconditional love. So I am capable of loving other unconditionally. Seeing as how people are not that different. My faults and those of others are not so different. So if I judge before I know the beauty in others, that's my loss.
J&E are family. Wonderful, lovable people, I look forward to knowing better.
T&J are family. Blood-kin and spouse. Wonderful, lovable people.
I want to include them in any and all activities that bring joy and laughter and love into their lives. I want to include.
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Stress has been creeping into my life. Unavoidable, I know. Stressful because of the frustrating factor. Knowing what's awry, and not being able to fix it or even knowing how to fix it. I'm not complaining, though it may seem as such. But stress has a way of getting to your loved ones; I mean my husband. So I talked to him about it, and was given a great gift in his point of view.
So I'll remain a sounding board to those who need it, I will continue to listen. But if things are going to get resolved they will. Or they won't. And I'll give my two cents if I'm asked; if I'm not, then I won't. But I'll observe and try to remain unstressed until something can be done. I'll help if I can. I won't throw fuel of the flames. I'll defend those who need it.